What is a Groomsmen?

One of the most important players in the entire wedding scope is the groomsmen. A groomsman or when in groups, groomsmen are a visible part of the wedding party. Groomsmen have a long history, usually part of the groom’s inner circle. 

Who are those likely to be chosen as Groomsmen? 

Nobody gets to walk into a wedding preparation and pose himself as the groomsman. You get chosen, and this choice is one of balance and all carefulness. Groomsmen are usually picked from close friends and relatives. The key is that the Groom trusts you to help him navigate through the most important day – his wedding day. 

The History of Groomsmen

It is interesting that In medieval Europe, groomsmen served as bodyguards to protect the bride, groom, and the bestowed dowry. They also served as witnesses to legitimize the marriage. In strange twists, groomsmen duties even included dressing like the groom to deter and confuse evil spirits!

Luckily today, groomsmen do not have to do most of that. That doesn’t mean they dress pretty and come to the wedding. One of the duties that rest on the shoulders of groomsmen today is throwing a memorable bachelor’s party if the groom would have one. 

What are the duties expected of a groomsman? 

During the ceremony, groomsmen are expected to keep things running smoothly without having to disturb the groom. They represent him to all other groups during the event, allowing him to have all the time he needs. In some cases, depending on preferences, groomsmen might have to prepare for a toast. This is not necessary, and it is at the discretion of the couple. In a lot of cases, only the chief Groomsman get to make a speech and give a toast. 

Most couples like keeping the numbers of both the groomsmen and the bridesmaid equal, again, this is not a rule; it is just for the sake of uniformity. If you get picked as a groomsman, you should consider it an honor, and you should do your best to support the couple. It is the reason why they consider you worthy of the honor. 

If on the flip side, you are anticipating being a part of the groomsmen and you were not called upon, don’t take it too close to heart. Ask how you can be of help and prepare yourself to be a wonderful wedding guest.

How to Ask Someone to Be Your Groomsmen

Asking someone to be your groomsmen is an important moment for both you and your groomsmen. Make the moment even more special with a groomsmen gift like a monogrammed flask or custom wallet. Gifts like this will show your appreciation and be a keepsake for your groomsmen. They can also come in handy on your big day!

Flowers for Groomsmen

Most people think only the bride and bridesmaids get flowers for the wedding day, but groomsmen often do as well. It is popular for groomsmen to sport a boutineer, or a flower attached to the lapel of your suit. 

While it's not required, these flowers often compliment the flowers carried by the bride and bridesmaids.